"Beware of single ladies", he said to me. Oh dear!

Two nights ago, I was 'opportuned' to have a lengthy discussion with a male friend of mine. He started by congratulating me on joining the 'married' club. Knowing him, I knew he was going to add to that! 

He warned me about keeping single ladies and divorced ladies as friends. His reasons??? Single ladies only mar marriages and they would do anything to ensure you are miserably single like them. As for divorced ladies, they only tell you the bad side of marriage and surrounding yourself with negative people isn't healthy for marriage particularly for a newly wed.

I recoiled in horror because I was shocked by his ignorance. Each to his own baby! In my experience, I find most married woman to be very toxic. It's like they are in a fierce competition with yoh- they try to lead you astray by giving you bad advice - they do not practise what they preach! 

As for the divorced ladies, I'm 50-50. Some of them offer good advice while the rest give bad advice.

Why would you want to abandon your single friends when you get married? They were there for you when you were single so why leave them? Would you be happy if they did that to you? I do not understand how ignorant some people are! Arm yourselves with knowledge! That's all I can say for now. Peace y'all
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